U.S. ARBUTHNOT FAMILY ASSOCIATION
NEWSLETTER - February 2001
Officers of the USA Arbuthnot Family Association:
As elected in Omaha, NB October, 2000
Chairman: Allan Arbuthnot
Chair-elect: Caroline Burtt
Vice-Chairman: Russell Parker
Treasurer: John Orsborn
Secretary: Phyllis Jones
Newsletter editor: Vickie Jones
Genealogist: Betsy Henry
Reminder -- Reminder -- Reminder -- Reminder --
Reminder -- Reminder
This is your official reminder that Dues are due. $10 for life members; annual membership
is $15 for non-life members. See the dues form inside this newsletter and send it in
today. If your address label says "L00" that means you are a life member,
and paid through 2000. The newsletter editor apologizes for the lateness or this edition
-- I had to fulfill many last-minute Jaycee commitments in January. Mea
Culpa, Vickie.
From: Form Submission
Subject: Arbuthnot Newsletter Submission (via website)
Date: 8 Feb 2024 00:38:46 +0100 (MET)
Name: Starla At. Jeppson
comment: Great job! I knew we had a website after reading the latest family newsletter.
Member?: yup
"My new Cairn terrier (very Scottish!) puppy bears the proud name of Arbuthnot's James, named for my grandfather James Hill Arbuthnot. He is called Jamie." Peg (Ridall) Davis (Betsy Henry's sister)
Spotlight on Table 5
James Arbuthnot, I settled in eastern PA in 1772 and served in the Revolutionary
War. His son, James, II, was born around 1773 and married Mary W. White around 1790. They
settled along Kittanning Creek in Virginia. Their son, James, III, was born there 1 Dec
1796. He and his first wife, Eliza Armstrong, lived in what is now Armstrong County,
Pennsylvania, later moving to West Virginia and then Ohio. James, III was graduated from
Jefferson College in Canonsburg, PA in 1822, studied theology in Pittsburgh, PA, and was a
preacher and founder of several academies. Table 5 descendants include the
following current and former members of the US AFA:
Rev. Charles William Arbuthnot, Jr. of Maine
James Brader Arbuthnot of New Mexico
Joan Kelsey Arbuthnot of Maine
Alfred Harold Arbuthnot of Florida
Jean Arbuthnot Johnson of Washington
Julia Johnson Byers of Washington
Craig Johnson of Washington
Eric Johnson of Washington
Beverley Arbuthnot McRae of Washington
Alison McRae Mixter of Washington
Stephanie McRae Nelson of Idaho
Michele McRae Power of Alaska
Joyce Wahlbrink Meier of Florida
If you'd like to see more of these "Spotlights",
please inform Betsy Henry.
From: Margaret Arbuthnot Ridall
"I was very pleased when I received the unexpected resolution naming me an
honorary member. It was very thoughtful of John Orsborn to carry it out. I
keep the folder by my chair. I wish I were still able to do the
genealogy because I enjoyed every minute of it, especially the correspondence.
I'm glad that Betsy was able to carry on with it. I've received many comments
about how well she is doing."
From: Judi Byram Says "Thanks"
I d like to thank those who signed my get well card. I enjoyed reading what was
signed by everyone. As for me now, I'm still trying to get my blood count
down. Boy, do I know what a yo-yo feels like. My insulin has been changed
three times. I was on 73/30 and "R", but now I'm on "R" and
Nolvin. I've gotten my count down between 160-250. But on Turkey Day it went up to
354. (I guess that cinnamon roll and rice chrispie square didn't help.) I have been
trying to watch what I eat, but it's been hard. Thanks a lot, Judi.
From: Betsy Henry, USA Genealogist
At the meeting in October I stated I do not plan to send the genealogy of living people to
Sir William Arbuthnot to be put on the
Arbuthnot Website. At the time I thought that was also his intention. Since
then I have learned that he has added the genealogy of the UK Arbuthnots to the
website. Let me know your thoughts on whether you think it is appropriate to include
living people in the website genealogy section. It is common for people who have
individual family websites to put on their own genealogy, but as the genealogy compiler, I
am concerned about privacy issues. I would appreciate feedback to me either at Betsy
Henry/8750F East Yale Ave./Denver, CO/80231
Searching for My Roots
(editor note, Thank you, Kyle, for sharing your story with us.)
My name is Kyle Boo (Elizabeth) nee Wilson Karson, and I am a new, yet old
member to the Arbuthnots of North America. I am located on Table 1, in the section
descended from Samuel Arbuthnot and Isabella Sarver, but what follows is the journey I
have traveled to discover my true genealogy.
My mother is Rachel (Rebecca) nee Arbuthnot Domber. Upon my
birth in Gainesville, Florida on March 1, 1962, the Wilsons in Birmingham, Alabama adopted
me. I always knew that I was adopted, and all it did was make me feel doubly blessed
because there were two more parents out there who cared and thought about
me. Anyway, for some reason, my adoptive parents had an extra legal document signed
by Rachel. It was never sealed into my adoption records, and was easily accessible
to my frequent snooping since it was stored in boxes full of old pictures and
memorabilia. I cant tell you how many times I pulled out that release form and
stared at her signature wondering just who and where she might be; what she must have been
feeling at that emotional time; how she was treated when she went home (her secret hushed
and forgotten) and, most importantly, was she still alive and well. The one thing I
did know was that I must belong to a really cool family since my last name was so
unique. Also, the unusual last name proved to be a blessing since there
couldnt be very many Arbuthnots out there!!
I tried several times in my college years to locate Rachel to no
avail. In 1989, my husband, Bryan, and I drove down to Miami, FL for his
brothers wedding. We stopped at the University of Florida in Gainesville (a
beautiful campus) to check out the yearbooks. There was no picture of her in the
annuals, but we did obtain and xerox a copy of her graduation ceremony held in December
1962 listing her as a business graduate (my same degree by the way). This was great news
because it verified that she did indeed use her proper name on the birth certificate
because so many other birth mothers used false names. I felt some sort of closeness
to her walking on that campus holding that graduation listing.
I was satisfied with that information for a long time, but then
when Bryan and I were thinking about starting a family of our own, my curiosity (for
obvious reasons) grew stronger. I found a woman knowledgeable in searching for lost
relatives, and together we began to shoot out every kind of license request to every
bureau or agency that had the potential to give me ANY kind of additional information on
Rachel. In the meantime, my adoptive big sister (who is the biological daughter of
my adoptive parents) began calling as many Arbuthnots in Florida as we could find.
There werent very many, so we thought for sure that someone would know Rachel (I
subsequently learned that she did live for a long period of time in Lake Worth, FL just
outside of West Palm Beach). Anyway, heres a listing of the people we spoke to
in case any of you guys remember a strange phone call back in 1991: in Polk County we
called Joe, Allan, Don, Carroll, James and Matthew Arbuthnot; in Fort Lauderdale we phoned
George and G. Arbuthnot; in Melbourne we phoned M. Arbuthnot, Arby Arbuthnot none
of these people had heard of her. The only clue we received was from June
(James wife in Polk County), which was that an Arbuthnot reunion was held in Atlanta
in 1989 and that they were working on a family tree, yet none had ever heard of a
Rachel. No one ever mentioned the North American Arbuthnot book or anything about
the Arbuthnot association. That would have made my search so much easier!!
Anyway, several months passed with little or no new information resulting from any of our
efforts.
Finally, a University of Florida in Gainesville, FL college
archivist called me and told me that Rachels records had been forwarded to Georgia
State University in Atlanta in 1967. I immediately phoned the Atlanta library
requesting that they look up Rachel Arbuthnot in the 1968 city directory. I was
given her 1968 current address as well as the fact that she worked for HUD. I
quickly found out that she was still working for HUD in Tampa, FL, was the Deputy Manager
AND was using her maiden name!!!! Hooray, homerun (so to speak)!
I didnt want to call her because I though it might upset
her. Also, I didnt know if her husband knew about me, and if they had children
that would have to be told. I decided to mail her a certified letter with pictures
and a poem I had written for her in 1982 as follows:
I dont know what to say, I dont know
what to feel,
I find myself wondering if you are make believe or real.
I know that you exist, wherever you may be,
I know that Im a part of you and you a part of me.
I love you very much, tho Ive never seen your face,
I love you for your self-denial, and for giving me a place.
A place to grow, live and learn, someplace of my own,
But your presence never left me, it just remained unknown.
And your presence remains unceasing in my heart forever
Since your blood runs through my blood, well always be together.
You live with me through music, a gift from you to me,
I thank you for this treasure thats impossible to see,
I thank you for your sacrifice, made with inner strife,
But most of all I thank you for giving me my life.
To my horror the letter was returned to sender weeks
later - unopened!! Rachel somehow obtained my phone number from the post office and later,
through a subsequent wonderfully enlightening conversation; I was given her correct
address. I found out that she, like I, played the piano and that she and her
husband, Mat Domber, are involved in a venture that strives to record and preserve true
Dixieland Jazz. She immediately mailed me copies of my related sections from the
mammoth book The Arbuthnots in North America. I was so overwhelmed! Every
adoptee always imagines that he/she belongs to some kind of special people or
heritage. Not only was I from an interesting bloodline, but to top it all off, we
even have our own castle and town in Scotland!!
In order to further reclaim my roots, I named my 3rd child
Kathryn Kate (Arbuthnot) Karson. Kathryn was derived from her paternal
great aunt Cathryn Kay (Miles) nee Arbuthnot Schultz (my grandfather Paul
Arbuthnots sister) and her maternal great great grandmother (Mary) Catherine
Kate nee Hoffmaster Rohrbach (Rachels great grandmother). If she
had been a he, then he would have been Samuel Sam Arbuthnot Karson. To
top it all off, Kate shares the same birthday as her grandmother Rachel.
I am so thankful for Rachels decision made so many years
ago, as it was definitely the best thing for us both. I am also grateful to now have
the biological and historical knowledge that is so important in knowing ones self (a
civil right I believe). I know that I am a lucky individual, and I try to count my
blessings every day. One of my greatest blessings has been not only the warm welcome
I have received from Rachel and Mat into their lives, but also the warm welcome Ive
received from all of the Arbuthnots out there.
Neal Hunt Obituary
Neal R. Hunt, husband of past chairman, Liz Hunt, of Albion, Nebraska, died on February 9,
2001. He had been ill since late December, diagnosed with sudden-onset diabetes, and
began using insulin. However, he did not improve, and a CAT scan showed a spot on
the pancreas. Liz says that she was thankful that he was not in pain and that he
knew everyone all the time. The funeral was February 12, with cooperative weather
making it possible for a large crowd to gather.
Neal was born 17 September 2023 in Cedar Rapids, Nebraska. He was in the U.S. Army from 1951 to 1953. Neal and Liz were married in 1956. He was a dealer supervisor, representing seed companies, for 35 years. Neal was active in community organizations; he also enjoyed purebred cattle shows, traveling, and Nebraska football. He collected toy trucks, cars, tractors, and belt buckles. In addition to his wife, Neal is survived by Liz's sister, Caroline Burtt, who will take office as chairman of the Arbuthnot Association in 2002.
Many Arbuthnots met Neal at various functions over the years. He and Liz were the hard-working hosts of the most recent gathering in Omaha in October of 2000. Neal was a genial person who enjoyed conversations, and was always "one of the family" with the Arbuthnot groups. He will be missed by all who knew him. Liz's address is: Mrs. Neal R. Hunt, PO Box 212, Albion, NE 68620.
From: Allan Arbuthnot
The Dates for the Florida, 2002 Gathering have been set. Mark your Calendars for
May 24-27. 2002. Watch the newsletter for more details as they become available.