Officers of the USA Arbuthnot Family Association:
As of the Gathering in Orlando, May 2002
Chairman:
Caroline Burtt
Vice
Chairman: Russell Parker
Chairman
Elect: Alfred Arbuthnot
Treasurer: John Orsborn
Secretary: Phyllis Jones
Newsletter
editor: Vickie Jones
Genealogist:
Betsy Henry
Website
administrator: Lani Erie
Arbuthnot(t) Family
Association Newsletter
July 2002
A word of Warning:
According to the by-laws passed in
Omaha in October 2000, no newsletters will go
out to members after a member is six (6) months in arrears. This is becoming increasingly important, as
postage has gone up again. As a courtesy, we are sending this newsletter out to members
who have paid through 2001. To renew your dues, please contact John
Orsborn, Association treasurer. He will contact Vickie when dues have been received. The
officers' addresses are printed above. The address label indicated the state of your
membership. For instance: L 02 indicates that you are listed as a life member paid through
2002. A 03 indicates that you are an annual member paid through 2003. If your records
differ please contact John Orsborn.
This is your
newsletter! Send us any information you want included: marriages, promotions or stories of
extended family. We will print as many as space allows. The more stories we get the more
newsletters you will get.
MINUTES OF THE GENERAL MEETING IN
ORLANDO
The meeting was called to order by
Chairman Allan Arbuthnot at
5:13 PM. The officers were
introduced. The minutes of the gathering in Omaha were accepted as published in the
November 2000 newsletter. As per our bylaws 2 members were appointed by the board to
review the Treasurer's report. They were Elizabeth Hunt and Al Arbuthnot. The two auditors
found the books to be in excellent shape. The Treasurers report was read and accepted.
Treasurer's Report
Beginning balance September 2,
2000 3013.98 Receipts 5028.00
Disbursements 4158.56
Ending
balance 4650.14
Dave Arbuthnot was concerned that at
some point the Association would not be in a solvent position. He moved that a simple
treasurer's report be printed semi-annually in the newsletter. This will be done.
Betsy Henry read the Genealogist's
Report, which was approved.
GENEALOGY REPORT
2002
I am working on
updating my material for the next editions of Arbuthnots in North America. When I
did this in 1994, I found that many of the addresses I had were no longer correct, and
much mail was returned as undeliverable. This time I checked over 750 names and
addresses on the Internet, and came up with a list of about 420 people in the United
States whose addresses seemed to be current. The first week in April I started
sending family group sheets to these people, in some cases asking that they send sheets on
to others in their immediate families. I have set a deadline of September
first, and when I return in October from another trip east, I will get things together for
the new books.
Because Ive changed to genealogy software from a
word processing program, I will be able to present information in outline, generation, and
family group formats. There will also be an index to each book. I have brought
a sample of how a book may appear, but I have not made a firm decision as to how I will
assemble each book. I am considering the possibility of assembling each of the
genealogy tables into its own book, and basing the price of each on the number of
pages. When my plans are more definite, I will notify members of the
Association, as well as others who have helped me by sending information, that the books
are available.
The issue of privacy has been a problem in my
dealings with Sir William Arbuthnot, the genealogist for the UK Arbuthnot Association and
Webmaster for the official Arbuthnot Web site. William has established and is
running a very comprehensive Web site with much commendable material. However, my
perception that he did not intend to include post-1900 genealogy material on the official
Web site was wrong, in that he changed his mind after telling me that was his plan.
He has set up his own Web site, not under the control of the UK Arbuthnot
Association. On this site he has uploaded most of the U.S. genealogy, material he
obtained from my records and then copyrighted to himself. As you probably know, he
does not consider identity theft a valid concern and has refused to remove peoples
information even when they request it, telling me that his genealogy Web site has no
privacy policy. I regret that I was so na�ve as to trust Sir William with other
peoples information. After almost a year of acrimony, during which he blocked
e-mail from me for several months, in April he established yet another Web site, this one
with the genealogy section accessible only by a registration system. I am hopeful
that this will protect the information that is already on the Web site.
Nevertheless, because of Williams disdainful attitude toward my concerns, I am not
inclined to resume sending him information. Sir William's response to all this is at http://www.kittybrewster.com/feedback.htm
question 58
The USA Arbuthnot Web site, managed by Lani Erie, is
in the process of uploading the early generations of each table, which is considered
responsible genealogy. Progress on this is slow, because of my other commitments and
Lanis move across the country this spring. Meanwhile, Sir William continues to
refuse to link to our Web site because he says on his Web site that ours has nothing of
value.
Because of these actions and several other
attempts on his part to interfere in the business of the US Association, I feel I can be
more efficient and effective in my position as genealogy compiler if I do not have the
frustrations of trying to work with a person who does not appear to respect the
capabilities of others.
I hope to continue to enjoy the projects
associated with compiling genealogy for Arbuthnots in North America. It has been a
great satisfaction to have the cooperation of so many family members in this work.
Respectfully
submitted,
Betsy Henry
Genealogist
The privacy policy
of the USA Arbuthnot Family Association was discussed in some detail. Great concern was
expressed over allowing personal data to be published on the web. Several members
mentioned their concern over the fact that Sir William still has birth dates of living
individuals, as well as mother's maiden name and place of birth all on the web. These are
the very facts that an individual needs in order to access bank and other financial
information. Identity theft becomes all too easy for some one who wishes to make use of
this information for his own purpose. Betsy Henry stated that she has not and will not
include such personal information about a living individual. She feels that it is a real
invasion of our member's privacy. Jo Ann Mardis told of how hard it is to get information
out of Indiana , even with a legitimate reason to know. Charles Arbuthnot said that it is
easy to get license numbers and even addresses off the web. Betsy explained that she does
not want to make information gathering any easier for the mischief-makers.
Betsy Henry introduced a resolution
stating our position on this matter.
Resolution
Because of Sir
William Arbuthnot's lack of respect for our requests that he privatize our personal
information and his insistence that identity theft is not a valid concern, I move the
adoption of the following resolution:
Whereas, the Internet website maintained by Sir
William Arbuthnot as a link to the official Arbuthnot website has published genealogical
material on living individuals without their permission; therefore, be it
Resolved by the United States Arbuthnot Family
Association in convention assembled, That we are opposed to the uploading of information
such as dates of birth of living people without the specific permission of each
individual; and
Resolved, That we request Sir William Arbuthnot to
remove birth dates of living persons, and to upload any additional birth dates of living
persons only with the permission of the individuals involved.
The resolution was passed unanimously. Several members
spoke in praise of Betsy's efforts. This has been sent to the Arbuthnotts in the UK to let
them know of our concerns.
Dennie Byram (past chairman) and his wife Judi
had intended to come to the gathering. However, on their drive to Orlando, Dennie suffered
chest pain and they had to return to their home in Spokane to seek medical care. Those in
Orlando signed a card for him and wished him a speedy recovery. He has since reported that
he is still having tests but feels better and thanks the family for our expressions of
care and concern. He appreciates our calls and notes.
We discussed needing a new chairman for 2008. Betsy
Henry nominated Alfred Arbuthnot. She said that she would be willing to do the legwork
required for the gathering if we wanted to have it in Denver. That part of the country has
not had a gathering for many years and several thought that spreading the gatherings
around the country would foster interest in other members. Roy McCracken closed the
nominations. Al was elected.
Mark your calendars! The next gathering will be in Sacramento, CA in 2004.
Caroline Burtt is our chairman and will host. Russ Parker is the next chairman and the
2006 Gathering will be in Georgia.
Betsy extended greetings from our
extended family in Scotland and Canada. David Arbuthnot wants notice of the Canadian
Meetings. We have written to Joyce Arbuthnott in Canada asking for this information.
The meeting was adjourned for the
cocktail hour.
In Memoriam
It is my sad duty to
report the death on June 1, 2024 of my sister Ellie Slocum, third daughter of Margaret
Arbuthnot Ridall. Ellie battled lung and liver cancer for over a year. She
maintained her normal activities as much as she could, continuing to see friends and
family, and putting everyone at ease with her matter-of-fact attitude. Although
it subsequently spread to her lymph nodes and brain, she participated in a recent charity
walk and was out for dinner the night before she died. We are sad to lose
Ellie, but thankful that she died peacefully and did not suffer greatly for a long
period at the end. Ellie was 61 years old.
One of her good
friends wrote these words to me: "I admired her strength and courage...she made a big
difference in many people's lives and I was happy she was my friend."
Ellie's daughter Sarah Hamley predeceased her, having
been killed on duty as a flight attendant in a plane crash near Pittsburgh, PA in
September 1994. She is survived by her son Jeff, his wife Melissa, and their son,
Ellie's beloved grandson Gabriel. Also surviving are our parents, Margaret and Earle
Ridall, sisters Peg Davis and Amy Ridall, and brother Ted Ridall.
I will miss Ellie the rest of
my life.
Margaret Ridall moved in May to the
assisted living facility, Woodbrook, where she lived several years ago. This time
she plans to stay, and to sell her house. (Her husband, Earle, has been in a
skilled nursing facility for several years.) Although she has very little remaining
vision, she still enjoys listening to books on tape and was also interested in news
of the Orlando gathering. Margaret's new address is 1250 Maple Avenue, Elmira,
NY 14904, and she would enjoy hearing from people who remember her as one of the
original members of the USA AFA and the association's first genealogy compiler.
MEMBERS AND GUESTS ATTENDING
GATHERING IN ORLANDO
Alfred
Arbuthnot |
David
and Marion Bonts |
Roylynn
Jones |
Allan
and Marie Arbuthnot |
Keith
and Linda Brooker |
Stephanie
Jones |
Charles
Arbuthnot |
Caroline
Arbuthnot Burtt |
Victoria
Jones |
David
Arbuthnot |
Mat and
Rachel Domber |
Robert
and JoAnn Mardis |
Ed and
Deb Arbuthnot |
Elizabeth
Hunt |
Roy and
Marcia McCracken |
Guy
Lane and Joann Arbuthnot |
Edith
Arbuthnot Hayes |
John
and Ruth Orsborn |
John
and Michelle Arbuthnot |
Betsy
Henry |
Russ
and Libby Parker |
Guy
Lane Arbuthnot III |
June
Jones |
Stephanie
Smith |
Ray and
Brenda E. Bedingfield |
Phyllis
Jones |
Eric
Tallbacker and guest
Danny Vasquez
Bret Clancy--Bag piper
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Many of the members went on the day
trips. One was to the Cypress Gardens. We had great weather and a lovely day.
Our trip to Kennedy Space Center was
informative and the weather was wonderful. We could not go out to the launch pad, as many
tour groups usually do, because they were getting ready to launch the Endeavor. Yes, they
were taking extra security precautions.
On Friday night 18 or 20 of us went
to the Italian restaurant for dinner. We brought along our own unofficial taste tester.
For details ask Alfred Arbuthnot.
Some of the young
(and young at heart) drove to Kissimee to the Medieval Times Theme Restaurant A castle
complete with arts and crafts of the times, a falconry exibition, and black smith shop
make up the Village surrounding the castle. Knights in Shining Armor, Horses and eating
with your fingers made up the food and entertainment portion of the evening. While several
of us were rooting for "The Blue Knight" only one yelled loud enough to catch
his attention and thus, catch a flower upon defeating another knight in battle. It was
another opportunity to talk with other people and enjoy the beautiful spring evening.
The banquet at the Ming Court was lots of fun.
Following the cocktail hour, the family was seated in a private dinning room at 4 large
tables. Our piper met the board members on the patio and piped them in through the bar and
the main dinning area to the room where we were to have the dinner. The surprised, puzzled
looks on the faces of the other patrons were priceless! What is a bagpiper doing in a
Chinese Restaurant? Who are these people? The seating arrangement gave us a chance to
visit more with some of the other family members. Several guests joined us and we were
glad to have them there.
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